I went to a small college in the countryside of Japan. There were almost no foreign guys living in the small town where I was living. So I came up with the idea of using the couchsurfing website to meet foreign guys.
It took very little effort. I simply posted my profile on the couchsurfing website. Since there’s a lot of tourists visiting Japan, even though I lived in a small country town, once a month or so some guy would message me asking if he could “stay on my couch.” And of course I said yes to all of them. Even though I didn’t have a couch. lol
When these guys would come into town, we would first meet up for coffee and if they seemed normal I would let them spend the night at my place.
To be honest, when I was doing this, I was… how can I put this…
horny?
I know it sounds shameless for a woman to say this. And Japanese society would shame me for saying and doing these things. But I never turned down a single couchsurfer. I let every guy (and a few women) stay at my place. Which was a tiny 1 room apartment. There was no privacy even if you wanted it.
Some of the guys who stayed with me didn’t immediately try to get into my futon. I guess they were trying to be gentlemen, or maybe they didn’t find me attractive, or whatever. In those cases, I would wait for them to make the first move. If they didn’t, I would politely ask if I could join them in their futon. lol
Because, well, why waste a great opportunity? lol
Basically, I slept with every couchsurfer guy who visited me. Total of maybe 7 or so guys. And all the guys were kind to me. Nobody raped me. Nobody was violent or aggressive with me. I didn’t catch an STD. I didn’t catch AIDS. I’m doing just fine, actually.
Overall, it was a great experience and I have no regrets.
Sadly, couchsurfer at some point became a paid site and at that point I stopped using it. But the memory of those passionate nights with different foreign guys is still fresh in my mind.
Obviously, a lot of people won’t like this. They’ll accuse me of taking dangerous risks with strangers. Others will call me a “Yellow Cab” or a slut. Japanese will say 「尻軽」 or call me a ビッチ。 Or accuse me of having no pride or self-respect.
But I don’t see things that way. I reject the shaming. I don’t feel it’s dangerous. I refuse to spend my life living in fear of other human beings. And I feel there’s nothing wrong with what I did.
If anyone is interested, I’ll write an individual post about each guy that stayed with me. Please let me know if that sounds interesting.
So that’s why I offer a virtual Japanese girlfriend experience to guys out there that want it. And I do it in the most authentic way possible. By authentic, I mean being sincere and honest. Who wants a girlfriend that’s a phony liar? That’s no fun. So I’m not going to post a bunch of fake stories on my site. Everything you read here is real.
I’m also going to try to make it easy to post comments here, so you can post quickly and easily without needing to set up an account. If you have anything to say, or you would like to have an “easy” Japanese girlfriend like me, I’d love to hear from you.
Via Telegram: japanesegfe
Via Email: aya (at mark) this domain
Love,
Aya, your Japanese girlfriend